The First Tiny Step You Keep Overlooking
The First Tiny Step You Keep Overlooking You keep reaching for a better plan when you actually need contact If you have been stuck lately, there is a good chance…
Mentor’s Corner: Why We Get So Precise About Session Notes
Mentor's Corner: Why We Get So Precise About Session Notes Mentor’s Note: As part of my role mentoring practitioners who are completing the EFT Universe Clinical EFT certification process, I…
Call Avoidance and Underlying Inadequacy Shifted in a First EFT Session
This first-session case involved an older adult in a client-facing business development role who felt frustrated by a repeating pattern: he knew what actions needed to happen, but still hesitated when it was time...
Why Some People Look Scattered Before Things Click
Why Some People Look Scattered Before Things Click Why Some People Look Scattered Before Things Click There is a stage I have learned to recognize in high-capability people. Nothing is…
Emotional Regulation Is What Allows Convergence
Emotional Regulation Is What Allows Convergence Emotional Regulation Is What Allows Convergence There are moments when choosing a direction does not feel empowering -- it feels premature. You might notice…
The Enchanted Forest Did Not Disappear
The Enchanted Forest Did Not Disappear The Enchanted Forest Did Not Disappear There is a quiet grief that comes with growing up that many people never name as grief. It…
Why Forcing Focus Backfires
When the Wall Isn’t as Solid as It Feels Why Forcing Focus Backfires Focus is often treated like a moral skill. If you can hold it, you’re disciplined. If you…
You Don’t Need a Perfect System. You Need a Sequence You Can Trust.
You Don't Need a Perfect System. You Need a Sequence You Can Trust. When work feels overwhelming, it's usually not because the work is hard. It's because the order is…
Mentor’s Corner: When “Unrelated” Memories Are Actually the Most Important
Mentor's Corner: When "Unrelated" Memories Are Actually the Most Important Mentor's Corner: When "Unrelated" Memories Are Actually the Most Important Mentor’s Note: As part of my role mentoring practitioners who…
Love Without Rehearsing Loss
Love Without Rehearsing Loss Love Without Rehearsing Loss Years ago, a student lingered after class at the end of a semester and asked if I would miss the group. The…